Эссе: Divorce is sometimes a solution to marital problems

I don’t believe that divorce is the only solution for an extramarital affair. There are other ways to deal with extramarital issues to bring good solution to the problem. First, you go for marriage counseling or you go to see a therapist if the problem is becoming a habit. On the surface of extramarital problems are variety of content issues, things that bother or upset the couples, past behavior that have been ineffective or painful. And underneath the surface of the extramarital problem, there are usually several root causes of problems; it is not what the unfaithful spouse did, but how the other found out about the unfaithfulness. It is not always a direct issue between them, but a third-party issue such as “another woman or another man.” Most of these underneath issues are not content in nature but process issues. This is to say that every marriage that is having extramarital issues must be worked on patiently to be successful. So, quitting is not a strategy, but a weakness. Therefore, find a solution to help the unfaithful spouse.